Ultimately the reason I love the BDSM lifestyle has nothing to do with sex, but instead with the idea that it allows people to be the most open and expressive version of themselves.
I think my favorite thing about Moash is that there are, in my experience, exactly two opinions one might hold about him.
The first is, “Ugh, Moash, my baby. My poor, perfect angel. Brandon has no idea how to write you. He does you so wrong. You could be so wonderful if he didn’t write you so terribly.”
The second is, “Moash, you fucking donkey. I’d ask how it feels to make a good decision, but you’ve never done that in your life, you idiot, you absolute dumpster fire of a person. God, you’re a piece of shit. Phenomenal character, impeccable writing, Sando really broke the mould with this one.”
I’ve literally never met someone with an opinion in between.
Kaladin not even considering that his men may want to get married. Kaladin being disgusted and annoyed by PDA. Kaladin’s only “crush” having been on his only (1) friend (who his parents also low-key expected to become his wife). This man is soooo aro coded
“But why do you follow all these people if they keep posting fetish art you’re not into” do you have any idea how boring my dashboard would be if I only followed people who aren’t into weird shit?
It’s an unavoidable truth that interesting people are, more often than not, into weird shit.
the biggest problem with writing fantasy in english is that there’s really no alternate universe phrasing that carries the exact tone and context to the reader as “jesus fucking christ”
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